Insights on Conflict, Leadership, and Governance

Practical perspectives for leaders navigating high-stakes situations. These pieces draw from three decades of experience in public school governance, executive leadership, and conflict mediation.

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When the Room Goes Quiet: What Silence at the Board Table Is Actually Telling You

The agenda item lands. Someone offers a tentative opinion and then pauses, scanning the table. A beat passes. The board president moves on. Everyone exhales just enough to suggest relief.

Nothing happened. Or so it seems.

In 33 years of educational leadership -- nine of those as a superintendent -- I have learned to read what silence in a governance room actually means. It almost never means what the people in that room want it to mean.

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